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I recommend you just tell her how you feel, but stress that you are just doing it to let it out, and that even if you let it that, you dont want to let it get in between the friendship.
u are in a good and a bad situation.. good thing is u telling her how u feel and she taking in a good way(depending on how she is) and bad in the sense she will freak out and tell the whole world about u(not a pleasant thing if u care about what other talk )
.. I was in a similar situation which ended up in a relationship and since than everything went down hill so..sucks I miss a damm good friend
I rather keep her as a friend but thats me.. it all depends on what type of person she is and also if u can handle just the friendship part and nothing more
^Dont do that lol it WILL get between the friendship. I would just say you don't feel comfortable talking to her about it and that's it. If she's really your BEST friend, she will understand. There have been times where i can't even tell my best friends things.
Edit: I will say though that if you wanted it to go further than just a friendship, then by all means tell her. But if not and you feel that guy she is with is good for her, it's in both of your best interests not to IMO!
that's my biggest problem. she's the absolute closest friend i have in this world, but at the same time, my feelings for her are just not right way too strong status.
but i'm too far in now. she knows i'm hiding something.
You have to say something, because if you dont youre just gonna get increasingly pissed at the situation and blow up and ruin everything. If you say something and she doesnt feel the same way (which she doesnt right? Because she has a boyfriend?) than you gotta leave her for a while until you get over it, and then hopefully once youre over it, you can go back to her as a friend and try to get that back on track. She has to understand leaving her for a while to get over her to save the friendship.
Drink up bud, hope it goes the way you want it to.
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