I'm fucked?

[Richard_Gud.]

she basically said fml..i prayed this wouldn't happen yada yada.

no clear answer. yeah I'm sure it will, everything has a plan and a purpose.

[Hinman]

It will work out man, just give it some time. Trust me.

[Richard_Gud.]

if i had feelings for her.

told her and said "i value our friendship too much to let this get in the way of it. I can get past it if you can"

i dunno she's acting weird..knew this would happen lol.

[.:Heather:.]

in. what was the question???

[schroedin]

well heres my story... i met my current gf a few yrs ago at a car gtg. we started out as friends and got to know each other. it progressed into the situation you are currently in. we became great friends. hung out all the time and had a blast. we both started getting deeper feelings and talked about it. she said "well i love you as a friend and value what we have and if we broke up i'd **** to lose you as a friend" i kinda agreed and we went on. well at one point i said fuck it and told her that i dont want to live the rest of my life saying "what if this was the girl?" and we decided we'd try it out. well 2 years later things couldnt be better. im in love with my best friend and would do it all over again regardless of the outcome. plus shes sexy as hell

I'm in the same type situation, except less time spent just friends and more time spent dating. Shit's tight though

I say tell her, even if its just to get it off your chest.

[LuckyBoyOne3]

I vote for tell her... I waited 10 years to tell my "best friend" and she apologized with tears in her eyes and proceeded to ask for my permission to marry her current boyfriend. FML.

[Pablo]

well heres my story... i met my current gf a few yrs ago at a car gtg. we started out as friends and got to know each other. it progressed into the situation you are currently in. we became great friends. hung out all the time and had a blast. we both started getting deeper feelings and talked about it. she said "well i love you as a friend and value what we have and if we broke up i'd **** to lose you as a friend" i kinda agreed and we went on. well at one point i said fuck it and told her that i dont want to live the rest of my life saying "what if this was the girl?" and we decided we'd try it out. well 2 years later things couldnt be better. im in love with my best friend and would do it all over again regardless of the outcome. plus shes sexy as hell

[Hinman]

This is a problem I feel many people face. I use to like my best friend of about 6 years or so now, but it just didn't work out. I told her how I felt and she just said that she didn't wanna risk the friendship and I was cool with that. I'd rather have her anytime I needed her than risk the chance of losing her.

It weirds me out when my friends try and get me to hook them up with her, I tell them to forget it.

[crxgames]

this is exactly why I don't want to do it. all the reasons stated above.

and btw mr. von, if I don't text her for a day, she thinks something is wrong lol.


update: I'm fucked. she just texted me "i'm going to ask you a question. i want you to be honest."

haven't answered..

At that point I'd say just answer the question. Just make it clear you value the friendship.

Hopefully it all works out for you though.

[WhiteStripes]

this is exactly why I don't want to do it. all the reasons stated above.

and btw mr. von, if I don't text her for a day, she thinks something is wrong lol.


update: I'm fucked. she just texted me "i'm going to ask you a question. i want you to be honest."

haven't answered..

What was the question?

This happened to me. Told the chick I liked her, she said she knew and she didn't want to ruin the friendship. She ended up starting to just sleep with the most random dudes and proceed to tell me about it. I told her STFU with the info that I didn't want to know since it was pretty painful. One day she straight up tells me she had a threesome with her roomate and her BF and I was like "Fuck it, nice knowing you, hope you straighten you shit out and realize that the friendship was destined to fail either way"

[B Rod]

bahahahah that could be a good thing though.

IMO, if she wanted to be friends she would just ignore the fact that she thinks you like her that way.

If she likes you too, she might be inclined to ask. Sooooo maybe you are in the clear.

This makes good sense.

[loxxrider]

bahahahah that could be a good thing though.

IMO, if she wanted to be friends she would just ignore the fact that she thinks you like her that way.

If she likes you too, she might be inclined to ask. Sooooo maybe you are in the clear.

[Richard_Gud.]

this is exactly why I don't want to do it. all the reasons stated above.

and btw mr. von, if I don't text her for a day, she thinks something is wrong lol.


update: I'm fucked. she just texted me "i'm going to ask you a question. i want you to be honest."

haven't answered..

[eric@canibeat]

if she does have legit feelings for you then it could work out well on your end. but at the same time it can end both your friendships. i personally wouldnt do it since you have been friends for the past 6 and she has a bf of 2 years.

[loxxrider]

I've worked my way out of the friendship zone. I did put myself in it though.

I say tell her your feelings IF you almost positively know she feels the same way. If it works out, it could work out really well. If it doesn't...well then you probably wont be friends anymore.

For me, it has worked out better than I could have ever hoped for...so I say at least bring it up.